Find your people — in your city.
Being childfree can be lonely. TOC is dinners, meetups, and a community you can actually find on a Tuesday night .
Meet in real life,
not just online
Cities gives every member a local community space to plan meetups and stay connected between them. It's where online becomes real.
We're already live in over 30 cities across Australia, New Zealand and the UK — and growing every month.
Create a free account to preview TOC — see your city at a glance, how many members are already there, and upcoming meetups on the calendar. No payment required until you're ready to join.
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Members say it best
"Within the first week, I had a handful of meetups booked, a solo friend date on the calendar, and a bunch of great convos on the app."
"I moved to Brisbane not knowing anyone. TOC gave me a whole group of friends within weeks."
"As bustling as London is, it can also make you feel incredibly lonely. TOC has been an oasis of amazing like-minded people — just what I needed to build my community and find my people."
"Finally a space where I don't have to justify my choices. Melbourne TOC meetups are my favourite nights out."
"I didn't expect to make actual friends but here we are. Sydney TOC is the best thing I've joined."
"I used to dread meeting new people, but our TOC meetups have really changed that. I actually look forward to them. We have the best little community here."
A space for every part of this life
Whether you're happily childfree, still figuring it out, or navigating it differently than you expected, there's a space for you here. Connect is where members have the conversations they can't have anywhere else.
The friendship shift when people start having kids
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Hi, I'm Danni
I started The Others Club because all my friends were having kids and I realised how important it was to find my people, people who just got it.
I started talking about it online and 300,000 people showed up with the same feeling. But followers aren't friends, and a comments section isn't a community. So I built something different: a purpose-built platform with city groups, local leaders, and actual meetups.
I'm childfree myself, based in Christchurch, New Zealand.